3RD MEETING: MY PERSONAL VALUES

~July 06, 2009
~Positive Attitude

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I dont remember when was the time I started practicing this values. But for many years have past I could really say that it results to a better experiences. Why?

Well everyone of us is soo familiar to the word PROBLEM. Problems which lead to some people to commit suicide. Problems which they say that hard to be solve. Problems which lead to some broken families. Problems which lead to some misunderstandings.

Problem refers to a situation, matter, or person that presents perplexity or difficulty. Well lets accept the reality that in some of us doesnt know that in every problem there's always a solution. Solutions that might be found everywhere but were not into it. I mean we just dont grab that opportunity to solve that problem eventhough the solutions are there, were just only focusing on that that particular thing; problem. And were just putting it worst.

For me, one solution to that is you just think things positively. Its like your dreaming things that you would like to be done in the near future which will lead you to a better world. If everyone of us will just think positively and do it heartly I think problems would be resolved. Because once you think positively and do it heartly you might result to a good solution. In which we might not do some harsh things into our selves (e.g suicide).

When I was in high school I have this misunderstanding with my well way back before a friend but now an enemy of mine. It all started when I fell in love or felt very much in love into that guy who is really good at chess, tall (too tall for me :]), not that cute, and not that handsome, in short he is not good at anything except making me smile and crazy (in terms of talking my self into the mirror laughing and the reason is just having some flash backs of the "kilig moments or chats" that we have). Well I knew I was wrong at the first place because he does have his girlfriend and being too much in love with him is soo wrong. But chatting and joking with each other somethimes isn't wrong. But her girlfriend thinks that I'm making "landi" on his boyfriend. I tried to explain everything to her but she said some unrespectable and unhuman words to me which makes me realize that that girl is a poser!! And the guy that I'm inlove with he didn't make anything he just play chess on the chess plaza. I treated that girl soo good I even treated her as one of my good friend but she even give me sometime to explain everything she just believe on what the others are saying which are actually wrong. I cried and cried. I think all of the people who have seen and knew that will treat me untrully and unrespectedly. But after a day have past I just think positively that this would be better and a OK. I just kept on thinking that I'm not that person what she said so I just be myself. And years have past and I did have lots of good friends which I can now treasure.
*The guy is now one of my best friend.

Its good to have lots of friends but your role as a friend you must listen to her explanations first before believing to others. And you must respect them as a human being unless you yourself dont treat yourself as one. And lastly always think positive.

3RD MEETING: GUIDE QUESTIONS FOR JOURNAL ENTRY

If you will have one outstanding virtue, what would you want it to be? Why?

If I would have one outsanding virtue I think that would be "Positive attitude". In every days of our lives we coudn't tell where, when and how our problems or trials will come to test us. And to be able to solve all of that trials you must always be a Positive Thinker; being able to think positive things eventhough you have a lot of problems facing through, you must not put you're self down but you must think new and better ways how would you able to anwer them in such a good way.
Life is like Math; if there are problems ,it (must) always have solutions.
And everytime I am suffering problems I just think positive and it would be a relief.